Saturday, March 17, 2012

Friends Who Disappoint You

Dark Shadow & Georgie Girl

Without going into details, I am feeling much disappointment and shock over finding out a friend is not what, or who he seems. Many times through out life, you will meet someone who you really look up to. Then some years later, find out that they don't live up to that image. It isn't your fault that you couldn't see what was going on in that person's head or private life. The fact is, that nobody could see it, as they kept it that way. Presented themselves, and their lifestyle as one you would like to live. Then you find out, it is not what you thought.

Tawny getting her hooves trimmed!

In those cases, what I felt after I got over the shock of the situation, is that I am in a better situation than they were all along. That my life is MINE, and mine alone. I make my own choices along the way, and some work out, and some don't. I try to be nice to others, and not step on anyone's toes along the way. Support the people in my life as much as possible in their choices. I never force my lifestyle or choices on my grown child or other family members. They are free to make their own choices, right or wrong.

Hurrying to the barn!

Friends will disappoint you many times through out your life, and there is nothing that can be done about that. So will family members. I wish I had gained this knowledge when I was in my twenties instead of now. Sometimes you want to help someone not make the mistakes you made, but that is how they learn. That is just life.






Copyright © 2012 Kathleen G. Lupole
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Wednesday, March 14, 2012

In The Forest On Wordless Wednesday































Copyright © 2012 Kathleen G. Lupole
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Monday, March 12, 2012

Preparing Is Not A Bad Thing To Do!

Nikita checks out the paddock after a tornado hit us!

"Preppers" is now a word that makes others think of someone holding a gun to their head as they try to steal your food. I believe that word has become a tag due to the television show, "Doomsday Preppers."  I will say that I have never seen the show so I am not reviewing it here. For one thing, serious preparing for natural disasters is highly recommended. Do I believe God will take care of me? Yes, I do.God is the one that gave me the brains to prepare.

Over 300 trees came down on our property in less than 5 minutes!

Being a person who stores food for the future does not mean you are a bad Christian. It does not mean you are planning on killing people or have a mine field on your front yard. What it means is that if your husband was in an accident and you had no money coming in, there would be food to eat. If your spouse and you broke up, you would have food to eat and hold you over until you could figure out what to do. If you lost your job and had no money coming in, your family would not starve.If there was  a bad storm and you could not drive down your road for a period of time, you would have food to serve your family. If the trucking companies went on strike over gas prices or their job contracts or whatever, you would be able to eat.

Growing Your Own Food Is The First Step!

Now the other thing everyone talks about is the fact that a "prepper" is looking forward to the end of the world. Well, if that was so, why would they bother to prepare? Are you looking forward to having an accident because you have insurance? Of course not! If you are not growing a garden and preserving food and something did happen where you could not get food at a store would you be going to someone's house for food? Or would be you waiting for someone to come to your door with a bag of food? FEMA's site tells that it is your responsibility as a citizen to provide for yourself and your own family. They cannot get to everyone in times of natural disasters.

No Neighbors!

Now if someone came to your house today, trying to steal your vehicle or break in, would you hold them off with your loaded shotgun or other gun? Or would you just stand by and let them do what they want with  your property and possibly your family? No, you would assert ownership by protecting all with your gun. Just because a television show plays up this fact tying it with people who prepare for emergencies is no reason to look down on them.



In all actuality, the people in the cities will be one who will have hardest time in any situation where the stores are not an option. Or where they cannot access their water or utilities. Out in the country you can make things work. Most people in the country grow a garden, have a well, and may have stocked up their pantries due to being prepared in case of emergencies. In the case where something big happens, most people who prepare will be providing not only for themselves, but for a neighbor (if they have any), and possibly for their family members. Now if everyone would prepare for their own families, there wouldn't be such a disagreement over such a term. Nobody said you have to do it, but you should!





Copyright © 2012 Kathleen G. Lupole
All Photographs Copyright © 2012  Kathleen G. Lupole


Sunday, March 11, 2012

Our Birds Return Home

First Robin Returned Home

Sprung the time ahead this morning! I really like this time best of all. It brings the feeling of spring. Along with the early morning sounds of the birds who have been making their way back to their home territory. Thursday morning, when we went out to do our morning chores, a big robin was sitting in our maple tree singing his familiar song. What an amazing sound that is! Especially when I am anxiously awaiting spring to arrive.

Hobo making her way through the mud

Now my thoughts are on my garden. Today I hope to get outside and look at my raised beds. Make some plans for what I will put into each bed. Seeing the beds out from under the snow gives me that urge to work on the garden. Can't wait to get my seeds started, but today I have other obligations. I am hoping to get look through the seed packages though and see what I have, and what I am out of.

Birds in the tops of the trees!

What about you? Are you seeing signs of spring in your area? I guess after such an easy winter, I shouldn't have cabin fever, but I do. Must be it is something that you experience regardless of the type of winter you have. Our horses seem to be eager for spring time, even though they love snow and colder temperatures. They are shedding their winter coats already and soon will be sleek and shiny.






Copyright © 2012 Kathleen G. Lupole
All Photographs Copyright © 2012  Kathleen G. Lupole





Wednesday, March 07, 2012

Homemade Beefaroni Is A Favorite Meal

The starting place for frugal meals!

As the price of everything keeps going up, cooking more of your food from scratch is a big money saver. It can also  improve the quality of the foods you eat. Part of preparing meals means finding ways to purchase the most  for your dollars. I did that the day I discovered a local restaurant supply store in my area, about 30 miles away, Mainesource, which is located in Binghamton, NY.


Ground Angus Beef!

I decided to stock up on ingredients to make some pasta dishes and homemade salad dressings. They make a filling meal at a good low price. I purchased ground Angus beef to make a homemade Beefaroni dish. Even though I did purchase a 25 lb. bag of onions there, I did not put any in this dish. My husband does not eat onions, so I don't put them in. First I cook the ground beef in a cast iron skillet before I add the garlic.  If you are adding onions, I would fry them with the beef and garlic, before I added the tomatoes.

A good way to stock up!

A much cheaper alternative to processed spaghetti sauces is to purchase the large cans (6 lb. 6 oz.) of diced tomatoes instead of sauce. It makes for a lighter pasta dish, which is how we like it. The brand I purchase from Mainesource is one that does not contain sugar or any sweetening products. Be sure to read your labels. They also sell canned whole tomatoes, tomato sauces, stewed tomatoes and tomato paste. Big variety there and good for stocking up.

Diced tomatoes

I drain off the grease, though with this Angus ground beef, there is not that much. Add some chopped cloves of fresh garlic. Then spoon in some diced tomatoes and juice. I do not measure it. Just eyeball it according to how much I want in it. We do not like it overpowered by the tomatoes. I was making a pan full, so I added maybe half the can. Mix it all together. Then add the uncooked elbow macaroni. I like equal amounts of all three of these ingredients. This is the type of dish you can adjust to make it the way your family likes it. More tomatoes, more beef or more pasta. If company is coming, you can make it much bigger.


Garlic, diced tomatoes and pasta added to the beef

After the elbow macaroni is added, I pour in about 2-3 cups of water. The elbows will cook in the liquid. Don't put too much water in or it will be soup. I then add my seasonings, like garlic, oregano and parsley. You can put whatever seasonings in that you like. Add some hot peppers for a spicier dish. Put it in the oven at 350 degrees. I don't time it. I just check on it from time to time. When the elbows are soft, I add some grated Parmesan cheese. Mix it in real good. They cook up a lot faster than you think they will. When it has finished cooking, I put shredded cheddar cheese on top and put the cover back on. Let it sit for about five minutes. 


Adding Parmesan Cheese

You can use whatever types of cheeses you like. Make it Mexican with taco seasoning and cheeses. It is easy to make and quick too.  It smelled wonderful! My husband and son couldn't wait to eat. It came out perfect and there were no leftovers. One meal from the food I purchased in large quantities. I have enough for many more meals. Canning up the  ground beef and the diced tomatoes for future meals. These foods can be stored frozen also. 


Shredded cheddar cheese on top

 katlupe's Beefaroni Recipe


1-2 pound ground beef,
2 cloves garlic, chopped
4 cups diced tomatoes
2 cups water
1 (16 ounce) package uncooked elbow macaroni
Parmesan cheese to taste
1-2 cups shredded cheddar cheese

Directions

Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C).
Crumble the ground beef into a large skillet over medium-high heat. Cook, stirring frequently, until evenly browned. Drain. Add the chopped garlic and fry lightly.

Transfer to a large casserole dish or roasting pan, and mix in the diced tomatoes, and elbow macaroni and water. When it has been heated thoroughly, add the Parmesan cheese and mix thoroughly.

Bake uncovered for 30 minutes in the preheated oven, or until heated thoroughly and bubbly.

Put the shredded cheddar cheese on top and cover for about five minutes until it melts.

* The amounts of the ingredients can be changed to make it larger or to suit your taste.



Perfect!

Each shopping trip for me is one where I focus on a certain item needed for the pantry. This trip I needed ingredients to make pasta dishes and homemade salad dressings. I will be doing a post in the near future on homemade salad dressings. Both are frugal additions to your meal plans as well as a big improvement over buying processed or fast foods.  What kind of foods do you purchase in bulk? Are you finding it saves you money too?





Copyright © 2012 Kathleen G. Lupole
All Photographs Copyright © 2012  Kathleen G. Lupole

According to the FTC Blogging Disclosure, I have to let you know that Mainesource did contact me about writing a post about how to save money by shopping in bulk. That was after I had posted about their store in several past posts, since it is my regular store. In no way did they influence me on what I wrote!

Tuesday, March 06, 2012

A Seasonal Road Through The Forest


Truck Trail is a seasonal road

Yesterday, my husband drove me to town. The roads around us are usually plowed. They were. One road near our house that we love to take is called Truck Trail. It is a seasonal road and not plowed or maintained during the winter. I would have never driven it in the winter. Usually the only people who drive it are the snow mobilers. Or my husband!

It runs through the state forest

Before we found our property, he used to take me on the worst roads. Back then we had a Cadillac without four wheel drive. He managed to drive it through some really tough spots. Now we have a truck with four wheel drive. Since we moved here in 1999 though, he has not done much of that type of driving. So I really wasn't expecting it. He was laughing at me as I kept hanging on. Maybe he enjoyed doing something out of the ordinary for a change.

The end of the trail......out of the forest

We went shopping and had a really nice day away from home for a few hours. It is always good to get back though and get the stuff put away. Make a meal, check the computers, and relax for the rest of the day. Luckily, my son has been staying with us. When we go somewhere, he keeps our wood stoves going. And the house is warm when we get back home.

The other way home!

If you are wondering what that little snippet of language is at the top of my blog, "Follow my blog with bloglovin". It is a site I have joined to promote my blog, and get more followers and readers. I had to put that at the top of a new post, so they could see that I am who I say I am, and this is my blog. It won't be on every blog post. Just this one, I think. 



Copyright © 2012 Kathleen G. Lupole
All Photographs Copyright © 2012  Kathleen G. Lupole