Sunday, August 29, 2021

Just Go Your Own Way



It seems to me that most people do not believe in freedom. They always try to enforce their belief on others. They have the freedom for themselves. Yet feel that others do not have that same right. They base it on the facts that somebody wrote about somewhere and maybe had been published or maybe not. That is pretty much the way it is. Take just about any subject there is. That is why people can only be friends with others who believe what they believe. They want to control you and tell you what to think and what to believe. 




Maybe they offer a reward or something needed in exchange for the others to listen to them. That is not really what they are doing. They are trying to make them conform. You see it in religion all the time. When that doesn't work, they get angry. Their anger tells it all.  My husband's family is very religious and they really push their beliefs on others. If you do not believe as they do, they basically shun you until you do. To everyone around them, they look very loving and good. People will say they are good "christians." Using the word Christian as if it describes them not as what they believe.




To me though, that was an example of not being a good Christian. In fact, it almost pushed me completely away for being a Christian at all. Then I learned on my own that your relationship with God has nothing to do with what other people think. Or the rules they make up along the way. Even the way they interpret the Bible. It is the same on just about any other hot topic. From diets to health or politics. Raising your children or whatever. People get hot over you not choosing to do what they did or do.




It kind of reminds me of a child stomping their feet and screaming when they don't get their own way. Maybe it is funny the first time you see them do that. Not if they do it every time you see them. Soon you stop seeing them or having anything to do with them. If you look through history you will see that is how it has always been. It is why people immigrated from their countries. It is why discoveries or inventions were made. People show rage if you do not agree with them. It is apparent just about everywhere you look.




My thoughts on that is that some parents give in to that screaming child and give them what they want to keep them quiet. Does that work? Maybe for that minute. Maybe for that day. But forever? No! It makes them see that if they do that whenever they want something then they can do it every time. If the parent stands up to them and says no, the child's screams and actions get louder and angrier. Till it gets out of control. Believe me, it does get worse. Much worse.




I know this. I had a niece who did this through out her teens and early adulthood. Needless to say that now she is no longer a part of my family. You can only take so much. After they chase everyone away from them, they are all alone with no one. Maybe they didn't care about their family when they were younger, but one day they will wake up and realize they are really alone. All those friends that supported their actions, grew up and moved on. 




That is why people will try to sabotage your efforts to lose weight or stop smoking or stop using drugs or alcohol. If you are not already doing those things they try to get you to try it...........just this once! Others will make fun of someone who follows their own path. They try to make you conform by saying you are following a conspiracy theory or the doctor is a quack or whatever fits. Making it sound like where you got your information is the wrong one and theirs is again, the right one. 




Most do not see that the citizens, the little people, so to speak, are being controlled by something or someone greater. It is like someone who always goes to the same doctor and whatever that doctor says is the truth and nothing new or different is true. They are like talking to a brick wall. I don't waste my time on them. I say let everyone do what they choose to do. Life was better when people retained a level of privacy. Just go your own way and do not worry or concern yourself with others. No longer will I try to make people open their eyes. I figure they get what they deserve. 







Copyright © 2021 Kathleen G. Lupole

All Photographs Copyright © 2021  Kathleen G. Lupole

Saturday, August 28, 2021

Make Your Apartment Safer With More Space


 

As people age, the realization of not owning a lot of unnecessary clutter and stuff becomes apparent. I know this because I have been downsizing for a number of years now. Other people are always talking about getting rid of their stuff. Stuff that you do not use often, if at all. The fact is that one day you might end up having to move to a smaller place and your stuff cannot go with you. If you are attached to certain items but know you will not use them again then there is no reason to keep them. I would rather see my things go to someone who really wants or needs them than to a landfill. 




Many older people might be moving into a senior community due to being disabled. If that is true, you really do not want to fill it up with clutter and things you will never use again. Just get rid of them. Living in an apartment you soon discover that free space is at a premium. If you fill it up then you have no room for things that may be more important some time in the future. Like walkers, wheelchairs, mobility power chairs or scooters, exercise equipment, large recliners, foot stools, tray tables, hospital beds, etc. I know the thought of that is the last thing you want on your mind but it is important to consider. If you live a long life it is a very real possibility. 


 





I have a large collections of knickknacks, framed photographs, little decorative items that take up space. Space which I need for the things I use daily. I need open spaces in my apartment due to my mobility issues with walking. I find in order to make things easier I need to get rid of more things now. Cluttered tables, shelves, floor space, dressers, etc. hinder you now. Things I said I would never do, I do now. I wanted an easier life and now I have it. I still need to make some changes. Changes to my apartment so it is easy to maintain and live in. 


Open space to use a walker or wheelchair is important!


Cleaning around clutter is time consuming. I do not have a lot of clutter as I got rid of so much stuff already. I cannot stand for long periods of time to be cleaning off shelves, dressers, tables or counters. This week I have started tackling this problem. Boxing up things I need to donate to someone who will use them. I have to do a job like this little by little. Otherwise I would be giving up on it and never make any progress. 




One area that I know from having taken care of others myself is that clutter that accumulates around your recliner or bed. That is because you spend a lot of time there and have the things you really use nearby. For me it is my glitter gel pens. I have many, many colors. That makes for a lot of pens around my recliner as I like to color in adult coloring books while I watch my television.


 

If you don't want to get rid of certain things, like the gel pens, organize them. Put them in something that will hold them but you can move them quickly if need be. I repurposed plastic food containers and glass jars to contain the gel pens according to color. Then the containers are in two large plastic containers that I bought meat in. This way I have them nearby but can pick them up and set them somewhere else easily. 





Copyright © 2021 Kathleen G. Lupole

All Photographs Copyright © 2021  Kathleen G. Lupole


Monday, August 09, 2021

Replacing My Old Computer


My Old Lenovo


I have been using computers since 1995 when the first Windows came out. I remember working in an accounting firm in St. Petersburg, FL when a guy came in to set it up on all the computers. What a day that was! Up until then I was used to using DOS at home or a program all ready set up on my computer at work. It was not online. Once they were up and running I was good to go. Setting up a new computer or operating system is a whole different story! It is not something I am experienced at. I had help back then. Now I live alone and have to learn to do some things for myself. To tell you the truth, I like doing it. Independence and freedom!


Legion By Lenovo box


It is not easy and I have had to learn so much just trying to set up this new computer. I have not used Windows for a number of years now and did not want to go back to it. Not only do I hate the idea of adding to gates' success, but I hated using the actual program. I could barely make it through the first day with my new laptop due to Microsoft garbage popping up on it constantly. It made me realize that not using it was and still is the right choice. 


What's Inside!


The computer I bought is another Lenovo. I have used Lenovo laptops for years now and am familiar with them. This one is called Legion by Lenovo 5. It is actually built for gaming and the graphics on it are great. It has a backlit keyboard which is another feature I like a lot. Especially for my eyes! I am not sure if the screen is bigger than the old ones but it feels like it is. Regardless, I love working on it now. I had been staying off my computer more in the last year or so. It was difficult to use and slow. This one is super fast!


Backlit Keyboard!


If you are using it out of the box with Windows there is not much you have to do other than connect it to the internet. For me, I wanted to replace the operating system with Ubuntu. I had never done something like that before since someone else did it for my old computer. In that one, Windows was partitioned off so it took up space in around half of it. I never used it once since Ubuntu was installed. So this time it was a no brainer for me to take Windows completely out. The only reason I can see for keeping it is if certain programs you use are only available through Windows. 


Fan and Legs Underneath!


It was still a scary thing to do since this is brand new and cost a bit of money. I had no one to ask. Nobody I know uses Ubuntu so I was on my own. I managed to find Linux Tv, which is a YouTube channel all about using Ubuntu. That was my starting point. I had it up on my television while I worked on it. I must have watched a couple of his videos about doing this a hundred times. Just over and over. My advice to anyone doing this themselves is to be patient and study the videos and go to Ubuntu's community, Ask Ubuntu. It is a learning process for sure. If I could do it I am sure most people could.


Power!


I finally got Ubuntu installed and was thrilled with myself! It was so nice to get rid of Windows and all that stuff they put in your computer so they can make money off us little people. I was able to access all my photos from my external hard drive which is where I keep them just in case anything happens to the computer. I have been doing that for years now. I have two. I am planning on buying another one for back up. I will be putting all my downloads on it as well. 


Ubuntu Is Up!


The one thing I am having trouble with is getting Libre Office installed. That is not an easy thing and I am having trouble finding a YouTube video about the installation. I am still afraid to access the computer through the terminal. I badly need office software because I write a lot and have text documents stored that I cannot open right now. I will learn though. I know it is hard to set up a new piece of equipment, be it a phone, a car or a new computer. But it has to be done. 




Copyright © 2021 Kathleen G. Lupole

All Photographs Copyright © 2021  Kathleen G. Lupole